Showing posts with label education. Show all posts
Showing posts with label education. Show all posts

Meeting People Where They Are

A lesson in learning – a Humanist perspective

I teach applied Humanism. It’s what I do. I was recently asked by a design student about how I design my classes so that not only what I want to teach is learned but so that people want to learn it.

One time I was participating in a Linkedin discussion for learning management professionals who specifically do online learning. The discussion was about how to humanize online learning. Most people were talking about how to add the instructor in to the course and interaction with the instructor in the course.  My answer was – well – what does the person you are teaching want to learn and how do they want to learn it? The people on the board responded as if I had two heads. No one had even considered asking what the student wanted to learn or that they might have a preferred method of delivery of the knowledge being taught.  To me – humanizing learning is to humanize the student. Not to humanize the teacher. You meet the student where they are and provide the information they want to learn in the way they want to learn it.

Examples: I can’t stand listening to people talk on the radio. But I have friends who say – that’s the way they prefer to learn. They love listening to self help audio books and podcasts. I don’t get it, but they aren’t me. So – I have a podcast and I’m making plans to get my programs into audio book format.  Some people like to read, and want to read books. So I have books. Other people want to watch video programs – so I have video programs. Some people like slideshares. Fine. Some people want a live classroom with a teacher. Some people don’t.

With my online programs – I’d say the number of people who watch, vs. listen vs. read the lecture notes is about evenly split among the 3 formats.  All of these things are conveying knowledge. My goal as the teacher is to make my programs available in the way my students want to learn it.  So I don’t really distinguish much between the books, the audio, the video programs and so forth. They are all methods of knowledge dissemination.

Here is another example of meeting the student where they are and teaching them in the way they want and need to learn. The first time I gave my Living Made Simpler course ( https://humanistlearning.com/livingmadesimpler1/)  it was a live continuing education program for a local college.  One of my participants was really focused on the Palestinian problem. He was pro-Palestinian and upset about the injustices they face.  He could not learn anything I taught without translating the concept into something to do with the Palestinians.  I kid you not. One of my examples of how to use compassion had to do with the person in front of you on an airplane leaning back too far into your space. He translated that into something to do with the Palestinians. I forgot what his analogy was. But I went with him and helped him do the translation because that was how he needed to learn the concept.   He couldn’t learn it with the analogy I had – so he had me help him create an analogy he could understand within the framework of his moral universe and that framework had to do with Palestinian justice.

What do they want to learn?

You can teach people wisdom – if you teach it to them in the way they need it. The topic has to be something they are interested in. For instance teaching bullies to stop – isn’t something they are interested in. Teaching victims of bullies how to get their bully to stop – that’s something people want to learn. (See my bullying & harassment training programs for more information - https://humanistlearning.com/category/bullyingharassment/)


What you teach has to play to their basic temperament and draw on their strengths instead of trying to get them to play against their type.  For instance my course on how to win arguments without arguing is actually about how to ask questions and not argue - https://humanistlearning.com/socratic-jujitsu/

How do your students like to learn? 

Do they like to read, listen, see or experience new knowledge first hand? Once you know how your student wants to learn and what they want to learn, you take their topics of interests and play to their self interest, create a program that provides that to them while also giving them a hearty does of wisdom and philosophy and then provide it in the format they want. Done

Check out all my stuff – in all it’s various formats at: https://humanistlearning.com

Continuing Education.

Why a commitment to your continued education will help you personally and professionally.


Knowledge is power.  It represents liberation. Without knowledge you can be taken advantage of and duped into doing things that are counterproductive. And the worst part is, you won’t even know it.

No one is perfect and there is always room for improvement. This is why Humanists are lifelong learners and advocates of continuing education in the form of personal and professional development.

Not all educational opportunities are alike. There is a tremendous amount of woo being peddled by self help gurus and life coaches. Woo is a derogatory term for non-science based nonsense peddled as knowledge.  All too often, people looking to improve themselves are led astray by peddlers of woo. This is why the self help movement has such a bad reputation. People are being taken advantage of by charlatans and they don’t even know it!

An example of woo is the positive thinking movement that is based on the book, The Secret. The idea that all you have to do is have faith and trust and a little bit of pixie dust and suddenly what you wish for will materialize is a nice thought, but it doesn’t work in the real world. Last time I checked, wishing didn’t work too well. If you want someone to send you a check in the mail, you have to do something to earn it.

Now, you may be wondering why I am picking on the positive thinking movement. It’s harmless right. And why not be positive? Well, that’s the problem with woo. It isn’t harmless. People spend money to learn the techniques. They spend time trying to solve their problems by thinking the right thoughts. They police their thoughts in an effort to think correctly. All of this is time, energy and money that isn’t being spent on fixing whatever problem you have. The worst part is that not only does this not work, you can’t get a refund! If you complain it didn’t work you will be told that it’s your fault. The coach or guru never has to issue a refund for teaching something that didn’t work. Sure it works for them. They may even be true believers. But they still suckered someone out of their money and then blamed them for their failure. That’s cruel and abusive, especially given the financial hardships people have faced recently.

It’s time to get real 


My point is that if you really want to improve you need to find teachers that will teach you reality based pragmatic approaches that will actually help you learn what you need to do to succeed. What you need is practical science based knowledge. Not woo based non-science.

Magical thinking doesn’t cut it in the real world. Whether it is a science based approach to getting the bullies and other obnoxious people in your life to stop, or a science based approach to mental health. Getting practical information that is based not just on anecdotes but on actual science will help.

I founded my company Humanist Learning Systems to provide exactly this sort of science based, humanistic education. Check out what we offer at: https://humanistlearning.com/programsoffered/

Learning how to tell the difference between woo and reality based approaches, is priceless. If you want to learn how to do this more effectively, then I recommend my 6 hour program – Living Made Simpler (http://humanistlearning.info/livingmadesimpler1/)


Freedom

What does freedom mean to you?

I suspect different people have different definitions. For me, freedom is about choice.  If I don’t have a choice, I don’t have freedom. Because while I may not be actively oppressed, I also don’t have the ability to change things either.

Humanism, to me, is a life philosophy aimed at the reduction of unnecessary suffering. Accept the things you can’t change, change the things you can. It seems to me that in any given life, there are things we can change and things we can’t.

The freedom that is of most concern to me is where I am restricted in my choices arbitrarily for no good purpose.  So – for instance - women not having access to birth control. That restricts freedom unnecessarily, because it restricts choice, unnecessarily.

Money is another thing that restricts freedom. Sure, I am free to travel, but right now I don’t have the ability to – so I can’t exercise that freedom.  Which is why poverty is so devastating to freedom.  Poverty restricts choices because it restricts access to options. It restricts access to education in places where education is not paid for by the state. It restricts access to health care, where health care is not guaranteed by the state. Poverty even restricts access to clean water in most places in the world.

If you do not have the means to secure the basics of life, you aren’t free to do anything but subsist.  Freedom, at that point, is a meaningless concept.

I’m not saying we should set up a welfare state, or that we need equality of outcome to be fair. What I am saying is that ensuring that everyone has access to the basic necessities of life is an essential first step to ensuring freedom for individuals to pursue whatever it is they want to pursue in life.


  • At a minimum, children should have access to a free secular education everywhere. Without an education, they’re life choices are severely restricted and their freedom diminished. 
  • People should have access to free clean water, at no cost (aside from the taxes that pay for this service). This means privatizing the water supply is not acceptable. Allowing private industry to pollute our common water supply is also not acceptable.
  • People must have access to a basic level of health care necessary to ensure their survival and minimum level of health so that they can pursue whatever goals in life they have. And this must be affordable to everyone.
  • Living wages – people, who work, should receive a minimum wage that is sufficient to ensure they have enough money to survive.  Whether they can earn more to be able to thrive is another matter. 
  • Open immigration and migration.  We must stop restricting the movement of people over national borders.  Yes, states have a right to keep out criminals, but people looking for work, should be allowed to move to where there is work.  Keeping people locked into an arbitrary geographic area to the benefit of the rulers of those geographic areas is not my idea of freedom. People should be free to seek a better life wherever and however, they choose. 

What do you think are the necessary minimal support people need to be free?

Why don't we stand up for ourselves?


3 tools of empowerment. How knowledge and training can help you overcome your worst fears. 



It isn’t that we are meek. It is more that we just don’t like conflict. Most of us would rather avoid conflict than stand up for ourselves. And, honestly, most of the time this strategy works because most conflicts are over really rather stupid things and walking away from the conflict is the smartest thing you can do.

However, sometimes, it’s not.  Sometimes avoiding conflict makes us feel like cowards. This is especially true when dealing with a bully or someone who is causing harm to others. Knowing what the right thing to do is in any given situation isn’t easy. That’s why we all stress over it.  For instance, the other day, I called the police about a domestic disturbance in the neighborhood. Several neighbors and I were discussing whether we should call the police or not and that is when I decided it was the right thing to do. It wasn’t a violent conflict, but I realized that if it had us all worried, that it was better to err on the side of caution rather than waiting to see how things played out.

Standing up for yourself and others is never easy, but there are ways you can empower yourself to do the right thing. 
  • Make it your responsibility. Don’t wait for other people to come and save you or save that other person. Help won’t come unless it is requested. So request help. Choosing to be responsible is often all it takes to overcome your fears and spur yourself into action.
  • Get educated. Know what your options are. Many times we are stuck and allow things to continue because we just don’t know what the alternative is. If something is bothering you, find out what those alternatives are so that you give yourself options.
  •  Get trained. Knowing what to say, how to say it, when to intervene, or when to ask for help is key.  For instance, knowing CPR empowers you to save a life, if necessary. Knowing what to say to a bully and how to say it empowers you to stand up, not only for yourself but for others.

The point is, don’t just continue to suffer and feel sorry for yourself or feel bad that you didn’t act when you know in your heart you should have. Make it your responsibility to learn what you need to know in order to not sit idly by the next time it happens.

Have you ever regretted not standing up for someone or for yourself? What did you do to empower yourself? Share your story. Help us all learn how to do and be better. 

Ten Humanist Commitments


We Humanists don’t do commandments. We do, however, feel very strongly about our commitments to others.  This is why the Kochhar Humanist Education Center has issued 10 Humanist Commitments to Education.  These are the values Humanists feel should be taught in our schools.  http://cohe.humanistinstitute.org/?page_id=14747

The website also includes resources in case you want to teach your own children these values and skills. For the record, the 10 values Humanist feel we should be committed to teaching our children are:

  1. Altruism
  2. Caring for the World Around Us
  3. Critical Thinking
  4. Empathy
  5. Ethical Development
  6. Global Awareness
  7. Humility
  8. Peace and Social Justice
  9. Responsibility
  10. Service and Participation

 “This ethical mission is an essential part of all education, public and private, elementary through high school and university.  In a democratic and pluralist society, we believe that the values presented should be the moral foundation of education.”

If you agree – add your name to the document. http://cohe.humanistinstitute.org/?page_id=14747

Educated Opinion

In order to have an educated opinion, you must first be educated.

You are entitled to your opinion, whatever that may be, but unless your opinion is based on facts, it simply won’t carry the same weight as one that is. Again, you need to have the facts on your side and that means you need to know what those are and that means you must be educated. Otherwise, your opinion is useless to those with whom you share it.

Lesson of the day, if you want your opinions to be taken seriously, make sure your opinions are educated and reality based. And don’t ever parrot other people’s opinions without first checking to make sure they have their facts straight!

Learning about Evolution

Learning about Evolution is important. Not only because it is important to be scientifically literate, but also because Evolution is a unifying concept in science. Scientific disciplines with a historical component, such as astronomy, geology, biology, and anthropology, cannot be taught without a clear understanding of Evolution. Further, nothing in biology makes sense without the context of Evolution and a clear understanding of Evolutionary biology is critical to our ability to fight diseases. As an added bonus viewing biology through the lens of Evolution is not only intellectually satisfying, it is downright inspiring.

If you want an update on exactly what the current state of science is on evolution, I recommend Your Inner Fish by Neil Shubin. A friend of mine who teaches high school biology recommended this book to me. It is an excellent book. It is easy to read and really interesting. If you were in school anytime before 2000, this book will help bring you up to date on not only the evidence for evolution, but also what science is capable of now.

If you are on the fence about Evolution or are confused about what Evolution is and why scientists are SOOOOO adamant it be taught, this book will help answer your questions. Your Inner Fish tells the story of how the author found a missing link fossil (fish to amphibian) two years ago. It ranges through a variety of disciplines explaining how each field is tied to the others. The evidence for Evolution is overwhelming. How anyone could deny the evidence after reading this book is beyond me.
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