Question:
I've never been interested in sex and relationships. I didn't even think about sex until I was 21, I'm 23 now, but people and the beliefs of society have caused me to doubt my ways. Sexual stuff has always caused me grief. How can I go back to the time where I was happy and didn't think about it?
Answer:
It's hard to answer this question without understanding what the problem is. If you are asexual and wondering if there is something wrong with you - the answer is no - there isn't anything wrong. Different people have different libidos and for some people, sex is not a big deal at all and not something they seek out.
There is an old saying - 20% of the people are having 80% of the sex. Most of us aren't having sex and aren't obsessed with it. We like it when it comes along but it's not an all-encompassing obsession as it seems to be for some people.
I've never been interested in sex and relationships. I didn't even think about sex until I was 21, I'm 23 now, but people and the beliefs of society have caused me to doubt my ways. Sexual stuff has always caused me grief. How can I go back to the time where I was happy and didn't think about it?
Answer:
It's hard to answer this question without understanding what the problem is. If you are asexual and wondering if there is something wrong with you - the answer is no - there isn't anything wrong. Different people have different libidos and for some people, sex is not a big deal at all and not something they seek out.
There is an old saying - 20% of the people are having 80% of the sex. Most of us aren't having sex and aren't obsessed with it. We like it when it comes along but it's not an all-encompassing obsession as it seems to be for some people.
