Showing posts with label absence siezures. Show all posts
Showing posts with label absence siezures. Show all posts

Life Isn’t Fair



My son was diagnosed with childhood absence seizures yesterday. This has several implications for him, one of them being that he is going to have to take medicine every day for several years, and possibly for the rest of his life.  He is really pretty upset about it.  Not the seizures, because he isn’t even aware they happen. But like any 6 year old, he REALLY doesn’t like the idea of taking medicine and at the moment, that’s what he’s most upset about.

And, he’s in a bit of a state of grief about it. He’s trying to deny he has a problem. He’s trying to find another way around having to take the medicine. He’s trying to bargain.  He wishes I hadn’t taken him to see the doctor. None of these strategies are going to work. As his mom, I know, this is just one of those things he is going to have to accept.

Which brings me to today’s topic.  Life isn’t fair.  I agree with my son. Ideally, he and I and his father shouldn’t have to deal with this. But we do.  And the sooner he and we accept that reality, the sooner we can start coping with it.  Is the coping going to be easy? No; of course not. But we don’t have a choice. This isn’t something that can be just wished away or ignored. 

Accepting reality, as unpleasant as it can sometimes be, is important if you are going to cope with anything successfully.
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