Showing posts with label core values. Show all posts
Showing posts with label core values. Show all posts

Is there a core value I emphasize? Yes, there is.

 My core value as a Humanist is compassion. Here's why.  


I realize this list of humanist values doesn't include compassion. That's ok. It gets at it through the concept of empathy. 

I like to keep things simple. The list I use for myself has 3 elements. 
  • Honesty
  • Compassion
  • Responsibility.
This list appears in my book The Humanist Approach to Happiness: Practical Wisdom. Which has been translated into several languages. https://humanistlearning.com/the-humanist-approach-to-happiness-book/

It also dominates all my online courses

Why Compassion? 

Let me answer that question with a question. Why be honest? Or why be responsible? Because if you aren't honest and responsible, you will hurt others and probably also yourself.  Why does it matter if you hurt people?  It doesn't, unless you are compassionate.  

Being compassionate means you are concerned, not just about yourself, but about others as well. The only reason to behave morally, is because of compassion. Without compassion, I don't think there is morality. 

Compassion is my moral compass. If I am ever in doubt of what to do, I think about the problem from the stand point of compassion. What will do the most good and the least harm for myself and others?  

Obviously, being compassionate isn't enough, but I do think it is a necessary starting point for all morality everywhere. 

Learn more by getting one of my books or taking one of my online courses: https://humanistlearning.com/jennifer-hancock/



Elements of Value

 I talk a lot about how to integrate ethics into your work, whatever that is. I firmly believe it helps us all make better decisions when we do integrate our ethics.


The biggest challenge though, is what set of ethics. Most of us live and work in a multi-cultural environment. How can we be sensitive to religious and cultural differences in values and still, integrate ethics in our collective decision making. 

The answer? Use a secular set of ethics. It really doesn't matter which list you use. All lists of ethics do is help jump start conversations about what it is we value and why. It's ok that people value different things more than others. It really is. It's in the dialogue that understanding and collaboration and agreement on how best to move forward can occur.

If you ignore this aspect of decision making, you can end up making some really bad decisions and people won't feel as motivated or connected to the decision as they would if they understood the moral imperative of the decision whatever that is. 

There are several lists you can use. The good news is that there actually are common human ethics that most people share. I like the ones that don't treat ethics as a hierarchy.  The image above is the American Humanist Association list of 10 Humanist commitments done as a wheel. The wheel makes it easier for participants in a discussion to invoke their favorite ethic or an ethical value they think applies and discuss it in conjunction with the other values.

My friend Elizabeth Castillo shared with me Bain's list of 30 Elements of Values. There is a really cool interactive graphic for this at their website and again, this list can help your team or group discuss which values they think are applicable in a way that is inclusive of everyone. https://media.bain.com/elements-of-value/#   Here is a link to a talk she did on this topic: http://humanisticmanagement.international/rethinking-resources-a-path-to-more-humanistic-management/

Another great resource is the Bildung Rose as created by Lene Rachel Anderson. These are integrated ethics that help with decision making and ethical judgement. And again, it's in a rose form because the idea is to balance the values. Here is a link to her talk on this which in turn, links to her website: http://humanisticmanagement.international/using-the-bildung-rose-as-a-strategic-diagnostic-tool/

how do you live out your core values in everything you do?

Companies preach about their core values but fail to live up to them. How can companies live up to their core values in everything they do from recruiting, onboarding, training, terminating, etc...



How do you establish your core values and embedded them in every process?

The first process is to be clear about exactly what it is you value and why you value it. Most companies – write a values statement because they think they have to.  But they spend very little time actually thinking about what those values mean to them and how they manifest them in their personal lives. Spending the time to really be clear about what the values are and why you want those to be your values – ie: how do they manifest in interpersonal relationships – is the first step.

The 2nd step is to build metrics to measure the implementation of those values in your organization and then to reward people – who actually manage to embody those values. For instance – if you value kindness, keep a log of kind acts done by employees and then give the people who do the most kind deeds – a raise, or a bonus.  Quarterly survey staff and ask them – who was the nicest to you and the most helpful among your colleagues – and quarterly – use that information – to promote, give raises to and bonuses to people who are kind.   If you don’t measure and reward the behavior you want – you aren’t going to promote that actually behavior in your company.

The third thing to do is to invoke the values in every single discussion in the organization. Talking about strategy – ask the question – how does this proposal advance our core values and our business needs simultaneously. If it doesn’t – ask the team to rethink how whatever it is could be done while embeddeding the values into the work.  The more you openly talk about the values, the more it will be a habit and the more your employees will understand – these values aren’t just words on paper. They are expected to integrate them in all decision and planning. If you don’t ask about them in the context of the actual work – your employees will naturally assume, they aren’t actually important.

What are your core values? What does it look like and how does it change the way companies do things?

One of my core values is – compassion, for myself and others. I am constantly asking myself – am I treating this other person with dignity and compassion? Or not. If I am in conflict with someone, I think – compassionately about them. I humanize them and design an approach that treats them with dignity and compassion. It’s part of everything I do.

How can companies change the way they do things?  

This is a behavioral question for me.  In order to create this change – they have to be intentional about what behaviors they reward and emphasize. And which ones aren’t acceptable.  Many companies and managers want civil dignified people – but they reward cutthroat individuals. One of my friends once said – the culture of any organization is determined by the last person promoted.  Be intentional about promoting people who embody the values you claim to care about. Let the people who aren’t on board with the values – go. Over time, the values will become embedded and a lived reality for your staff.

One last thing. When we talk about values – we are talking about how we are treating other human beings. Our colleagues, our customers, our vendors. Everyone. The point of our values is to treat people well and with dignity and compassion and to create communities where everyone can thrive. If this isn’t your goal – you probably aren’t talking about values/ethics.  How we treat people – and what we tolerate our managers doing to people- dictates our corporate culture. If you want a nice place to work – you have to hire nice people and get rid of the not nice ones.

Want to learn more about how to do this? Take one of my classes. All my courses integrate discussions of core values with information on how to actively apply them to your work. https://humanistlearning.com/programsoffered/

Whether the problem is leadership/management - https://humanistlearning.com/principles-of-humanistic-leadership/
How to de-escalate conflicts - https://humanistlearning.com/de-escalate-conflicts/
Or how to stop bullying in the workplace - https://humanistlearning.com/workplacebullying1/

Being clear about your values and actively invoking them to improve your own behavior and the behavior of others - will help you be the person you want to be and be more successful as well.

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