We need to remind ourselves to be ethical. It isn’t
something that happens automatically. We have to think about our ethics in
order to be ethical. This is why Humanists are always encouraging people to think
before you act.
I know for myself, my initial gut reaction to things I
experience can sometimes be quite negative. In order to be ethical, I have to
interrupt my negative thinking and replace it with more ethical and
compassionate thinking. I have to remind
myself to behave in a more ethical way.
This isn’t easy to do because it requires practice and,
well, thinking. And it’s hard to think well when we are experiencing negative
emotions. This is why we need to be
reminders to be ethical. This is why it benefits us as humans to talk about and
discuss ethics with each other. Every
time we read about or talk about our ethical values, we are reminding ourselves
to do better and to try harder to be the best most ethical person we can be.
The reward for our ethics is that if we can bring ourselves
to behave better we will not only get better results, we will also feel better
about ourselves in the process. Is it
hard? Yes. Do you have to constantly remind yourself to be a better person?
Yes. Is it worth it? Yes.
When some sort of insult occurs, my little ego self sure jumps up first in defense. But as you say, when we stop, process, and listen to that higher part of ourselves, the response is quite different.
ReplyDeleteThanks for this, Jen!