I am not a believer in the religious concept of sin. Though
I do think there is a secular value in the word “sin.” It implies not simply
that something is wrong, but that to do it will be to cause problems. And
certainly, most things that are considered sinful have the potential to cause
us problems.
Regardless, I was doing a radio show a while back on
religious attitudes towards sex. I was the secular voice basically saying,
enjoy yourself, just take care to not cause any harm while you do so. One of
the female pastors who came on before me said something that stuck with me
though. This was a black preacher and she said that one of the reasons the
white community has fewer problems is because they plan for their sin better. Specifically, she was referring to the fact
whites use condom more and so experience fewer problems that are associated
with unprotected sex like disease transmission and unplanned pregnancies.
I loved this idea of
planning for your sin. From a Humanist perspective, it isn’t that sex is
inherently sinful. That’s a nonsense idea to us. However, we do understand that
all of our actions have consequences and we should plan for those consequences
to maximize the good and minimize the harm.
The idea that you can plan for your sin is actually a
Humanistic idea. It is rooted in the idea of human agency, that we humans have
the capability to choose our actions and therefore, to a certain extent, choose
our consequences. We aren’t victims of fate, we can, in fact, plan for our sin,
though I prefer to think of it as accentuating the positive and eliminating the
negative.
Great post and something I have always tried to live by. Responsible behavior and understanding all actions have consequences, good and bad.
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